You are not a bad mom! You are just getting conflicting information from two different sources. I totally get if this gets downvoted but hear me out.

Your OB's word should trump the pharmacist's. It feels like it is not their place to be making that accusation.

However, I think you should do your own research. I don't want to scare you but 1/4 pregnancies end in miscarriage in the first trimester and many of them have absolutely no reason for them. Usually chromosomal. Nothing the mother did caused it most of the time.

However, I experienced a miscarriage recently and it was my first pregnancy and the guilt I had from eating sunny side up eggs and even taking my Unisom which is ok was overwhelming. I did nothing that caused the miscarriage but the "what if" has made me so I can't even look at certain foods anymore. The pain from my guilt is heavy. No matter how many times I am told I did not cause it.

If I were you, I would wait. I just wouldn't want that in the back of my mind.

Sorry if this isn't a super popular response but that is my perspective... just don't want you to feel guilty about something down the road. Even though that guilt would be absolutely misplaced... but you may feel it