Is it possible to become a good person?

It depends on you. As you progress through your journey, as long as you’re moving in a vaguely positive direction, you’ll start to find out who you truly are. You may or may not turn out to be the “good person” you’d like to be now.

I can personally say, though, that no matter who you are, it is possible to be natural. And when you are natural, happiness and appreciation arise naturally. When those two arise, you see everything in a different light.

But there’s two ways to go about this.

Most of society will tell you to change yourself according to external standards. Find the “solutions” to your “problems”. This, to me, is pure shit.

I’m telling you to embrace who you are.

/r/Advice Thread