Yeah, same. And "foreplay" never lasts more than like 5 minutes. And as a result sex is uncomfortable at best painful at worst cause I'm not turned on enough so I'm not wet enough and it doesn't expand enough so they hit my cervix and it hurts. Then they act like I'm prude or a 'dead fish' cause I don't them blowjobs and don't ever initiate sex. And I shit you not every single one of these dudes wants anal. They can't even take the little time to prepare my vagina and they actually feel entitled to obliterate my ass too. That shit's no joke. You can injure someone if you don't prepare enough. They'd put me in the hospital cause they don't care as long as their dick's wet. They don't give a fuck.