I'm sorry youre having to go thru this.

IMHO

if you were going to her blog on your own free will and not her sending you a link or telling you to go there.... You really shouldn't have looked at her blog after the first time if it bothered you. She in no way has to write about her experiences from your point of view. She can view the end of the relationship as she wants to. All you should be worried about is how you feel about it.

I only say this because my ex is pulling similar except her version is ass backwards.

Who is right(we are) is beside the point idc what she thinks went down. But whats aggravating is she(and idk if you do also) have deemed us writing in our space abusive. Now if your ex friend's blog is identifiable, real names and such... you should request that she stop lying about you. But if it's reddit or a private blog...something not connected to you that's not in your normal usage, that won't come back to have any effect on you...who cares? let her write your a purple bikini wearing pyscho. Don't read it and it wont bother you.