Post adoption parental visits.

Hi, sorry I'm late to your post.

In our case, parental rights were terminated last month and we are going through adoption proceedings now. One of the mothers (we have 2 brothers, same dad diff mom) still texts my wife and wants to participate in his life at her convenience.

We entertain her from time to time with pictures but after adoption my wife is changing her phone number and we are severing ties. She has a terrible history and only serves to confuse our son when she pops up once every few months for 2 hours. He hasnt seen her in about 6 months now and he is finally getting used to the idea of one mom (he is 6, had him since 3).

We've talked this over with social workers and we feel this is the best, hard as it will be on her. He needs stability and no more confusion.

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