and im a bi guy who isn't feminine who only likes guys who also aren't feminine, and kind of small waists are gaahhhhhhh haha. My biggest advice is make it part of you but not who you are entirely. portray your other interests and avoid the gym rat appearance online, as most dont like seeing that lol. same with me, im bi and find guys hot sometimes, but i also am a huge pc need and minecraft nerd etc, so all are just parts of me. but im going to bed now it's too late lmao. if you ever need like you need some motivation mentally or whatever, don't be afraid to hmu any time for whatever random chatting! you seem pretty cool and probably have some cool interests or advice to others. never give up!!!!