pretty girl problems

I get you girl, I think there is a strong chance your friend genuinely is not doing it as a flex - online creeps are scary especially if she has an inkling that they know where she lives. I feel empathy for her and she may just be wanting to vent to a female friend. However, if you can remove your own emotions from this and still evaluate that she is doing this to try and 'flex' (not that creeps determine ur looks tbh) that is very toxic - for example, does she bring this up when you mention your feelings of uglyness? If so that is toxic & I feel sorry she does that (I know someone who used to do something kinda similar with me, it felt shit but tbh i mainly just felt sorry for her).

I want to reiterate tho that she is likely just genuinely venting, but your feelings are valid. Creeps are terrifying and are not an accurate way of determining your worth, in my experience they make me feel more ugly.

Hope that helps x

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