In private/my residence, I (34M) live my life as a woman.

So like its hot and you put on a skirt to let some air in? I think us girls are just confused in what you mean. Because im not sure i walk around really aware that im a girl when I am alone. Like unless im pmsing and wishing this evil curse would end. Im just me. A person. I dont feel like someone other than who I am as an individual. Im not thinking about my tits. Everyone has many qualities you could say are male/female... But thats because they are human qualities. Where maybe you say you enjoy makeup or shoes i see you are an artist or are into fashion. Maybe the issue is that you view womens things in a negative light and have fetishisized them. Like its a taboo. And i understand that. I used to be sacred to go to home depot a m d wanted a bf to do it until i realized i like doing my own house repairs. It just became part of who I was.

I guess my point is that woman things aren't something to hide because they are bad. And if you take a relaxed view we are more similar than alike. So us girls dont really know how you eat your cereal differently in the mornings or sleep with your pillow upside down.

I think when guys do start going out in womens clothes they drag queen it up... Like no woman uses that much makeup and hairspray. Women like to be comfortable no one wears bras when we arent forced too. We all burp and fart. Even the cute ones. We live in our bfs hoodies and basketball shorts. Sure its fun to dress up once in a while to feel famcy but no girl really lives like that. I mean i just spent 2 hours getting ready for a lunch date and 3 minutes after i got home everything comes off and i flop into my bed.

We aren't a fetish. Just be yourself. What ever that means to you. Its ok to be a guy too. Its ok to be vulnerable. Its ok to fail. As long as your strength comes from inside and not from others approval you will always be ok.

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