After a long road of difficulties/impossibilities getting dates with women, the first time I actually tried the “not putting them on a pedestal” thing it actually worked.

This past week I was at a friends holiday party and said I’d had enough of being the overly emotional sad dude that worships women.

I went up to the prettiest girl there and spoke to her like a casual friend. Got her number and started texting her in a simple, flirty, easy way that left out any stupid hormonal emotions.

We’ve got our first date on Monday :)

It doesn’t matter who you are, if you had my experiences with dating you’d have 0 self esteem. But just changing my approach made literally a world of difference. Really crazy stuff when you actually act like an adult.