My Drow are night focused good Elves. No Llolth. No sadistic dominatrix murder culture. No Underdark. Just peaceful elves with dark skin and white hair who have hoarded lore for millennia.
I feel you.
Mine live on the dark side of the moon, in structures somewhat like hobbit-holes. No systemic demon-worship. Still matriarchal, but not tyrannically so. They lean neutral in most conflicts but tend towards good alignments. They branched off from other elves long ago over religious differences - My "mainstream" Elves are agnostics - it's complicated.
I also changed Driders into evil Fey. The only mechanic I changed for them is creature type.