Ok, I've actually heard someone bring up this example at a debate with a feminist, and I liked the answer she gave. Feminism actually looks to address this issue and get rid of it, because toxic masculinity doesn't only harm women, it also harms men a lot. If we get rid of this notion of men as the 'strong' sex and the expendable one, then stuff like that won't happen.

Most "real" feminists would 100% agree with you on the fact that men are discriminated. Not all of them are crazy, but as many people have already said, the crazy ones are the loudest, and the ones which make for the most interesting news stories. Whenever someone identifies as a feminist, I think we should all wait a while before labeling them as crazy.