PSA: The following things are ok no matter what you hear from some ExMos

OMG! I've gotten so much crap from other exmos for not desiring to drink alcohol, smoke, or try any kind of drugs. I didn't leave TSCC because I wanted to do those things and not feel guilt about it. (I left because it simply was not true!) If I was never a Mormon, I probably wouldn't have done those things anyway. It seems like a lot of exmos want to run out and do those things ASAP.

Another thing I get crap about is being kind to the missionaries. I am forward about who and what I am to them, but I don't try to teach them anything. I'm not going to try to break anyone's faith if they are happy with it. If they ask questions, I'll answer them honestly, however. They may or may not ever question any of it, but I don't feel it's my place to plant that seed. I was a missionary too, and I remember how nice it was to meet someone who was kind and friendly, whether they were interested in TSCC or not.

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