FOSTA and SESTA are not being enforced. There are hundreds of forums on Reddit with users doing the very things you mention all day everyday. Not in danger of being shut down in the slightest. So what exactly is this forum for then? For bitchy female sex workers to complain about bad clients and scammers? That's lame and bad for buisness. Advertising here makes perfect sense because this is not just a forum of sex workers, it's also people who enjoy them or are at least curious about it. You want to be selective about advertising, sure. Making the excuse that it's going to get the forum shut down is overkill. Reddit is a great way to have discussions as well as to advertise but often all I see are complaints, toxic trolls, arguments and passive aggression.