PTSD/"repulsive neediness"

34m ptsd extreme sexual and vieolnece surviour or whatever the term is

We all limits and I'm pretty anti men emotional, lucky I love women and ahve a great one suporting me,

anways he shouldn't say stuff like that, don't take it, it it bothers you leave him if you phsycially can resource wise, we all have little blow otus throuhgt,

my famle friend, her husband who she got throught ptsd, they had a big arugment and she's was constantly coming back to at the end of every figth wiht him and appologiziing every time, she runs the entire house and her son, but she;d go cry in the spare bedroom for hours, or come here and have flowers and time with me, he'd peroid shame her,
she'd vent to me, and then go appolgize and take 100% respaonitbity for everything despiete being the strong and smartest women I've ever met, I listned to her vent for 24 hours and then pushed her as i had been for months to stand up to him, not take that, not apppolgie for that argument and take responsibily, she lay into him that day, and just as she was leavig to to a lavendder farm wiht the entire future of thier marriage on the line for a pre booked self time, he came back to her and appoligised, said he was a toxic man and he needed to work on emotioanl control or not blame her,

She's carrying thier second child now about 4-5 months in, she's at wokr rihgt now and he's carring for thier son I'm gussing, haven't talked to her yet today,

point being we all do and say stuff thats wrong, but there comes a point when you just have to make a decisoin for you and yuo alone, yuo can't take emoitonal abuse for ever from anyone or you won't ever get better

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