PUA peddlers are the worst

I am a cold approach peddler (hate the term pick up artist) and I will honestly say that it’s the best method for average guys. Average guys meaning guys with average or slightly below average looks who need higher level social skills to compete. Yes, the person’s response is definitely going to be based on looks. It’s complete bullshit to say that it isn’t.

The argument or assumption that people make though is that we are usually our biggest critic and people are not usually as ugly as they think they are. Sometimes this is true and sometimes it’s not. I thought I was ugly for many years because enough people had told me I was. In reality I’m probably average or slightly below average. I’m just not everyone’s taste.

If these people are your friends I assume they weren’t trying to throw you to the wolves, they probably just wanted to see you have a good time and get out of your shell. I will admit though that the “looks don’t matter “ argument often feels like a sketchy sales pitch or someone’s way of telling you why you should get like them.

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