Okay I'll give an example for your dense ass.

There's a woman that married one of my family friends years ago. The guy was an engineer making well over 100k. The parents of the guy failed to disclose to the girl that he was a severe alcoholic, however, her parents knew. They went along with the marriage anyway cause he was from a good family and earned good money. Unfortunalty for the girl, she found out after marriage about his additiction issues. She stuck it out for a few years hoping he'd change, he didn't. They had one kid together, and eventually divorced soon after. Now cause of the blatant disregard of alcoholism, the girl had to endure a terrible marriage, now has to raise a kid alone, and deal with the shame of being a widow in the community. And this isn't just some one off case. I wonder how many women are pressured into marrying men due to their reputation, money, and looks, regardless of their personal demons and addictions? Addictions isn't considered an issue at all unless the guy is homeless or dying of liver failure. That is my point. Gain some life experience before coming at me sideways.