First off: Nowhere did I ever say that a man's satisfaction was more important.
That's all you've focused on, literally.
You're drawing that conclusion on your own, without my help. I stated that a man feels shame after a premature ejaculation, and if he chooses to not continue that is his right.
No evidence it was premature, no e idrnce he gad shame, not every guy is shamegul about cumming quickly. The OP ssid ge easn't vent out if shape, is she a liar?
Once again, the OP didn't say if he tried to please her before or after, you made the assumption that he did not.
She was unsatisfied, so clearly he didn't do enough; she got 4 minutes of PIV. Your assumptions are truly baseless in comparison.
By that token, if we were to flip it around and say that a woman, after coming, stopped and didn't finish the male off, that we're only valuing her sexual satisfaction.
We would be, if she only made enough effort to cum herself and then stopped before he did. But that rarely happens, ever, so you're not afraid of it.
But there's always more reasons as to why the person stopped. To assume the woman in this flipped around situation came and then just stopped is unreasonable, as it is in the male example.
Like cumming and not being interested anymore? Yup, that's the case according to the OP. I'll take her word over yours.
And now you're assuming more. Why would I support a guy saying that a girl came and tapped out, without thinking "Hmmm, maybe she felt a certain way and didn't want to continue?" You're applying baseless assumptions to how I would react without actually knowing.
Your attitude is my base; it's gendered in favor of the guy and calling the OP a liar and making up shit about how the poor man was so sad and insecure with no proof; where have you done that for women in TrollY?
And the last point I would like to make: I don't refuse to believe men could ever just come and stop to not please the woman. Woman do it to. Shitty people can be both genders.
Men do it way more; every piece of relevant data shows men climax far more easily and more often get to during sex than women.
But the OP didn't say anything about him trying to come and dash. She also (again) didn't say if he tried to please her before or after. Your initial post immediately assumed (something you do a lot of) that the guy did the worst thing in the situation, without thinking maybe he had reasons.
She ssid he wssn't upset about him fucking her 4 minutes and then being done; my assumption is selfishness. Your assumption is "feeling insecure, despaired, and a failure and she hurt him by not cumming and he was just a nice guy!"
You are full of shit.
You assume the worst in men automatically, and that's the problem.
You assume the best of men and the worst of women and are ignorant to non-PIV forms of sexual stimulation; that's the problem.
That is why I said what I did in my initial post: This sub attracts ignorant people. Because people come subscribe to these subreddits already convinced of their ideas and just want reaffirmation. This sub has become a massive circlejerk without giving any benefit to the doubt.
Said the person who posts in TrollY and AA; circlejerks, ignorant people, reaffirmation, and siding based on gender. Take a long look in the mirror.