Q4ALL (but mostly men): Is spending money on Women a requirement: Yes or No?

Like I said, it depends on how you define "spending money on her".

For example, let's say you're on a dinner date. You split the bill 50-50. You buy condoms and she buys birth control. You're not paying for the date. But if you were single you wouldn't have had that dinner or bought condoms. You wouldn't have paid for those things otherwise. Under that definition, some would argue spending money was a requirement.

But that's a strawman. When people argue that you don't need to spend money on women, that's not the definition of "spending money on her" they're using. They mean that you can go dutch all the time, that you don't have to spend more on the relationship than she does, i.e. you're not buying her romantic investment through beta bux.

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