Q4M: "The fact that I'm still attracted to men is proof that sexuality is not a choice" - do you feel the same way about women?

Do you wish you weren’t attracted to women?

Absolutely. Setting aside their entitlement, mind-games, strong in-group preference, and all of the other BS for a minute, women are just simply boring. Ever have a conversation with a woman on a dating app? On the rare occasion you both match, you as a man have to carry the conversation hardcore or else she decides you aren’t worth her time. From what I’ve seen, women are practically the real-life equivalent to NPCs. Their interests are the same, and they thoroughly lack the capacity to contribute in creative or interesting ways to a conversation. Men, from what I’ve seen, tend to be the interesting ones, and also at the same time the ones that are kind and loyal. Not all men, but enough of them to make finding a good man for a relationship a worthwhile pursuit with a valid chance of success.

I genuinely wish I was gay. I would much rather be gay. To be able to find someone whose compassion is genuine, who isn’t just a cynic on the inside, and who has interests other than “sleeping and the beach, lol” is something I am truly sad that I likely won’t be able to experience with a woman. Not to mention the risk of being regret-raped or otherwise falsely accused of something by a woman is terrifying. There’s just nothing you can do as a man; a smart, well-timed false accusation can destroy your life completely. Men rarely pull that shit, and they get shut down quickly whenever they try it unless they have compelling evidence. Even if they’re telling the truth and have strong evidence, men have trouble getting someone who sexually assaulted them to be properly punished by the courts.

Do you resent being attracted to women?

Yes. There’s no benefit compared to being attracted to men. I see my sexuality as literal torment sometimes. I have an urge to go out and try to find a lovely woman who can love me even half as much as I love her (or at all, for that matter). Try as I might to find her, that woman doesn’t exist, which is excruciating at times. No amount of success or prosperity in life can completely fill that void.

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