Porn is really a loss-leader created to appeal to incels with little-to-no sexual experience, in order to monetize them by luring them into paying for camgirls and etc. Sometimes guys in relationships have a porn habit, but it always causes a problem which eventually returns them to their natural status as an incel. To repeat: there is no real money in porn itself.

From what little sexual experience I had in middle school, its always seemed fake as fuck to me. (And I'm not the only one who thinks that way, I guess I came of age when "porn is fake" was the maybe the right virtue signal.) But the more I think about it, maybe that's the point. Its like the Nigerian Prince scam, everyone knows its fake except the true believers. The faker it is, the more appealing to incel future sex industry customers. And yesmof course, a lot of the incels into this can only get off on the acted-out sadism and violence which they delude themselves into thinking is real. Or they get into chicks-with-dicks, or some other weird shit. And eventually the become useless to actual women.

Maybe the older feminist take was porn is bad for all the reasons, but maybe younger women are like it exists and it works as a shittrap for incels.