Question to all women: What does a guy with no standards need to do to be a worthy partner?

I'm never going to argue that women aren't pickier than men. They definitely are. I'm not going to link the article because it would spawn way too much outrage on this sub but a girl I know shared this article on FB about how basically she's "worth" a guy who will do nothing but entertain her, take her on trips and be a constant intellectual challenge, despite the fact that I know her well enough to know she is not even in the top 50% of women on any metric, and she provides very little challenge/excitement to a man. Yes, there are tons of women like this. It pisses me off and I don't even date women.

I've seen guys with jobs looking for a reclusive NEET gf who likes video games because they want to sit with her in the house all day and cuddle and play video games. A fantasy mostly absent among females.

Yeah, increasingly women do seem (at least millenial women) stuck on the idea of a relationship that constantly provides excitement. I've become more of a homebody as I've gotten older, and the idea of going to Coachella vs. sitting around with my husband eating candy...can't even compare. Indoors ftw

They almost always want him to have some kind of education/job, confidence, social abilities and circle, and so on.

I agree here too. Maybe not so much about social abilities- a girl with asperger's for example may want to date a guy with it too. But I get your point, I don't even really disagree.

Interestingly, I've seen a few guys post semi-braggy stuff on female-centered subs like "Is it normal that I don't care about a girl's body?" but then in the sub he talks about "I don't care if she's stick skinny, I just want her to have a tiny waist and big boobs and big butt and lots of leg meat!" Like, okay, that's still "caring." Not that there's anything wrong with that, but don't walk around claiming you don't care. Yaknow?

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