Question for couples with vastly different sex drives, how do you make it work??

not really in that type of situation,I (19M) just have a girlfriend (22F) whom i had sex with as much as 5 times in a day. we’re about 7 months into our relationship and I love her. I truly believe I’m going to marry her but it feels as though we only have sex 1-2 times a week and don’t do anything than the mundane motions of fucking and finishing doing maybe 2 different positions. Out of anyone I’ve ever had sex with she’s actually incredibly the only girl to get me to finish and make me feel comfortable and enjoy myself, but it’s getting hard to finish kind of recently. Whenever we do have sex we just lay down and then it just kinda happens or when we both get drunk and have sex, theres no foreplay, no build up to it and its not like I’m going to break up with her over it I love her and I love virtually everything about her. Both parties enjoy it as well, she’s frequently commented on how I’m the only guy to make her finish every time, there are even instances when we’ll start and sex wont even start because she has already finished and gets tired then i’m left to the good ol’ orange and black. I also find myself to be a bit more kinky than she is and I’ve always been more comfortable with the idea of sex than most and always thought sexting, nudes, and flirting like that was natural. My girlfriend on the other hand doesn’t like any of that and doesn’t enjoy any sort of naked pictures at all, which I’m a firm believer in only do what makes you comfortable but sometimes it’s just difficult. We’ve also in this time kind of stopped doing spur of the moment stuff, no more couch sex, no more trying new things, no more her putting on lingerie for me, she rarely will give me head anymore as well.

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