Not the same situation, but similiar feeling here. Where im from I have to take 15 weeks for parrental leave. It is too much, and I would gave gladly given all but 4 of them to my GF if it was possible. I find it unnatural to stay at home with kids, while my GF would very much like to be a srætay at home mom if i made 50% more and she could quit her job.

When I say unnatural, might sound brutal, but its just not what Im wired to do, im a good old fashioned male who would rather be out "hunting" and coming home to my family with something they can be proud of.

Im not up for this new age shit, i change the light bulbs here and my GF likes it.