The only thing that brings my libido back, is my stress decreasing. When the demands of life get too great, my libido plummets straight down. Living on easy street and not having too many responsibilities is what gives me a good libido. I very seldom get to a place of feeling that relaxed, so it is a battle. Fatigue is killer too. I’m so tired at the end of the day, that I basically have to go to bed and doing anything else physical is usually a big no. I actually developed a sleep walking disorder from not getting enough hours of sleep, and the sleep specialist insists that I need more sleep and have to get to bed earlier, so that’s always my priority over sex. Sadly, with where I’m at in life, I’m working so hard to keep my health in order and get done all the things I need to, the energy for sex is not there. A vacation, a housekeeper, a day off here and there...an easier life are what would bring my desire for sex back; physically and mentally.