I’m friends with a girl who is even herself admittedly quite rotund (like 220lbs)

She let me fuck around from her tinder. Not even going to go into what resulted from that because it’s a long story and probably won’t be believed

But let me tell you one thing. She had thousands of matches but that’s not important, what is important is she had legitimately hundreds of guys in her recent messages, and I was shocked how many of them were handsome as fuck. Dozens of 8s were actively pursuing her

She also had 5’10 in her bio so most of the guys were over 6’0. To make matters worse she would left swipe or stop talking to guys who were SHOCKINGLY attractive for extremely petty reasons that a guy would never see coming

Even though this seems discouraging I’m probably between a 7 and 8 and I’ve never had problems on tinder. If a girl answers, I can usually meet her