A kind person would never feel hate for not getting what they want. They will feel frustrated, disappointed, depressed...but not angry at people’s freedom of choice.

If you act “nice” just to get sex, vs being a kind person in general, women can smell that from a mile away. I understand that it is frustrating to live sex-free, but being angry at half the population because you have it rough is counterproductive and frankly, childish.

I promise you you won’t find someone if you hate women. “Do nothing for us” is a repulsive comment and a terrible mindset. I’m assuming you think you’ve done all you can to improve your chances, but the bottom line is—it you are hateful, you will be alone. Fix this part and see where it takes you.