Questions from a Mother

But that is where your wrong. Assuming something does not make it true. Loving someone does not always mean agreeing on something either. When someone completely shuts down I have learned through experience they are not ready to discuss the difficult emotions, feelings or the root of the problem. It is easier to run from the truth than to face it. I know this through my own personal experiences of abuse as a child. I stuffed for many years until as an adult, through therapy and learning how to communicate properly that hiding was not healthy. In the end we all can assume but my hope is to find answers that are beyond just regurgitated words that do not get to the root of the problem....it is hard to accept something that you are not even given the opportunity to understand. Each case is different I am sure but at no time will any of this stop me from loving the person, I do not have to love the problem

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