(questions) losing virginity to someone experienced. nervous!!

I want to make sure it's enjoyable for him as well.

What are some things I can do while he's on top that will drive him wild?

Girl, first of all, relax! My first time was with a guy who had a lot of experience already, and I was soooo nervous, and I really wanted to be perfect for him... but I can now tell you that it will take a while to actually know what to do and how to drive him wild, and that's not because you are inexperienced, it's because this is the first time you two are having sex. Right now, he knows that it's not going to be perfect, because he doesn't know what you like either, but that doesn't mean it won't be fun - those first times are precious exactly because you'll probably be stopping and repositioning and laughing and be surprised at the most random stuff. There is no script in sex, there are no expectations beside being respectful and attentive to each others needs.

Just dress in a comfortable way, shave if you're comfortable with it (I personally like to trim the whole thing down with an electrical razor, because shaving or waxing down there irritates my skin, but that's just my preference), basically be comfortable in general. He doesn't want to have great sex, he wants to have a good time with you, and for that you don't have to do anything in particular, just be yourself. Trust me, when you're actually there your instincts will tell you what to do ;)

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