/r/brunei random discussion and small questions thread for 24 April 2021, Weekend Edition

My male cousin did something similar to me but it was online. He flirted with me through a texting platform, which initially I mistook for him being nice. I was in my early teens and he’s only 2 years older. Eventually it became sexual. 20 years later and I’m still confused as to what happened, nor do I remember it clearly. Now when we see each other at family events, we just smile politely and walk past one another . He hasn’t tried to ‘rekindle’ that ‘relationship’ since the texting, and I assume (hope) he’s ashamed and was also confused. He lived with an older relative who was known to touch pre-teens, so I hope he was able to fight through the trauma he most likely faced.

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