r/Hapas is now the 3rd top Google hit for the search "Hapas". Behind Wikipedia and dictionary. We are by far the largest & most active community. We will define what it means to be Eurasian for the 21st century.

Exactly why you guys are just a bunch of douches. I chatted with one of my close friends on facebook after my meltdown on this post and I realized how narrow minded this subreddit is making me. Its not helping me at all to go off and rant online. I need to enjoy the small things in life. I legitly had a conversation with him for 2 hours just talking about life. Got rid of that negative energy from me. BTW my friend is White and he faces a lot of the issues I have. he was depressed before, and also can be a little socially anxious. At least though it went and took the time to be a awesome bro and counsel me. It was good to get all that negative energy out of my system. He completely knew where I was coming from. I just wish you guys had awesome friends like that will support you that way. The reality is if I continue to feed on the negative energy from this subreddit I will likely become like you guys. The biggest advice my friend gave me is that "HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE" and it really spoke volumes to me. I think this subreddit is toxic because the users here externalize their problems by solely blaming race for their problems in life. Even I am tempted to give myself a pity party like everyone else on this subreddit. I know this is not going to help me at all. The amount of harassment, sexism, and racialism on this subreddit is appalling. Who gives a fuck about WMAF couples. I have better things to worry about. Yeah there are shitty people out there but bad WMAF couples aren't the only bad people out there. The thing is you guys do not have an outlet to express yourself properly. I realize that I need to address my issues, and at least my friends are there to support me. I am going to see a counselor to talk out my issues. Fuck you guys. Really just fuck you. You are just a bunch of whiny pussies who cannot move on with your life. I admit I have my issues to fix but its not due to my race, its my own personal issues. At least I have a support system around me to pick me up. I am dating someone. That is something. I want to live out my life and being glued online all day will not help me. I have college classes next week for my summer quarter and I will just focus on my academics and keep in touch with my friends. I will likely avoid this subreddit for a long time. I realize its only worsening my own issues by being fed the hate, and shit that the posters here have. I need to look towards the future and not look behind. So fuck it, I wanna live my life. I do not need race to go on and define my life. Fuck the racist people out there, and other haters. I am going to live my life on my own terms. Peace out

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