/r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for April 08, 2019

I am in LDR. during the past visits my bf made, I saw this "girl" whatsapp-ing him. He doesn't reply her when he's here with me. I asked him who is he, he said she's a colleague, already married.

During the most recent visit, I saw her texts again when he first arrived and went to shower. It popped up on screen. Basically this girl is just asking like okay reach d ah. something like that. My fingerprint is registered on his phone so I did something bad. I turned on his phone and scrolled through the chat, nothing weird just that they usually have breakfast together after arriving office. or discuss about some other colleague stuff. This girl texts him good morning everyday WTHELL? Gurl? you crazy?

I trust my bf fully and I'm sure he will never cheat. Just that, this so called colleague girl whoever is really making me uncomfortable.

Today, he wrongly texted me "home le, u leh?" when he clearly knows I'm home. Then he said sorry wrong text. wanted to text colleague in group chat <- stupidest excuse ever?

He is visiting me again tomorrow. And I feel like crap tbh.

however, how can I ask about her/confront him without telling him I actually looked at his chats. sigh.

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