/r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for January 02, 2022

wHat wld u do to a friend who pangseh u at an ulu forested place (wld u cut off ties, confront, or what else?)

I have known this person for a few years already, and we also went out quite a number of times over the years (would say we r quite good friends...or so i thought) , so i have been feeling rather frustrated and mulling over whether i should just slowly back away from her and end the friendship. A few days ago, we went out tgt to this cafe located in a secluded area and all was g until we were almost done with our food. What appalled me was that she picked up her phone and called her boyfriend to pick her up. During the call, i looked at her wide-eyed, staring at her in disbelief, and I couldn't believe that she intended to just leave me to my own devices in a place where there were no cars, no buses and no people. In the end, I walked out of the cafe alone while she stayed behind in the cafe to wait for her bf to come pick her up

I hope i don't sound entitled, but i thought it was basic courtesy to at least call a taxi and wait with me/walk with me out to the main road??? Or she could have asked her bf to fetch us BOTH OUT TO THE MAIN ROAD?? Later during the day, she apologised to me and "hoped that i managed to find a way out", and when I confronted her, she tried to justify her actions by reasoning that "the floor was wet" ( it was raining heavily) and that "she was scared" (like harlow you think i not scared arh) idk if she just dk the social norm or is it self centred and only care for herself or is it she just thinks of me as nothing.

Should i break off ties with her?

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