I do see a lot of unfair bias against black males in particular in the dating scene and when it comes to escorts. At the same time, Black Males come across as hyper confident, have a reputation for packing heat downstairs, and don't seem like like being told "no". This means that the good guys out of the black male population draw the short end of the stick, which sucks. I blame rap culture and gang culture because it stereotypes blacks as unreasonable and super confident, and that can be intimidating.

Why is this the only area of life where overt racism is OK?

Because sex is intimate and by it's very nature involving your personal space. Also, if we are talking about dating, then you also have to deal with the family of the person you're dating usually. I'm a white male. I don't think a black guy would appreciate me fucking his sister tbh. I've passed up black girls who are attracted to me in the past because I simply don't want to deal with their male relatives.

I realize that inherently I'm being racist. But I lived in a predominantly black community when I was a kid and the black kids beat me up a lot and I simply don't have the confidence and swagger and competitive spirit to keep up with a black guy busting my balls all the time even if he likes me. I have exactly one black friend, and he's like a father to me. He has a white wife and that works out great for him. Black male white woman works better than white male black woman imo.

I dunno what to tell you man. I don't think anyone wants to be racist. But micro thoughts affect every decision we make. I read in the comment section that you're black. I dunno if you have a sister or not. but if you did would you really want a white guy fucking her?

I'm from Canada btw if that helps illustrate my position any better. I actually find black people, including males, who originate from places other than North America to be more charming than black people from North America.

I will tell you this. Black people are not ugly. They're very attractive. They're too cool for me. It's all a confidence thing. You guys are too confident. I feel like I'm falling behind.