Be mindful of whataboutism -- Once you start down the path of comparing injustices it's easy to spiral into indignant exhaustion.

Prejudice of any kind is a disservice to humanity and no subgroup should endure (or promote) hate crimes. It's very valid to address someone's challenges without inadvertently invalidating someone else's; it's just difficult to do so. Sensitivity, frustration, and animosity feed on themselves so it's very important for each of us to try to break that negative feedback loop in these kinds of necessary discussions.