Is this racist or socially acceptable?

I live with my grandmother, so there have been countless times where I’ve corrected something ignorant and offensive she’s said about POCs. I’m not looking for praise or anything like that, I just want to point out that I shut it down when I see or hear things like that happen. I’m always looking to get better, to be a better ally to everyone who has to go through bad things on account of circumstances that they have no control over. I’m not always good at it, as here for instance I know I’ve been insensitive to you, and I’m sorry for that.

I just don’t want to be counted out as like good or anything like that on account of my skin color before I even get to do anything myself. I know POCs have felt exactly the same sentiment forever, and I’m not trying to commandeer that or anything. I just like doing the good thing, the right thing, and like I just want to be able to without being considered bad off rip.

I know that I’ll never understand what you have to go through, and that me pushing back in this conversation hasn’t helped at all, I just want to be able to do the right thing. I haven’t had it easy in my life (won’t elaborate, parent foster care stuff), but I recognize that I’ve had a layer of privilege protecting me throughout regardless of how bad it got for me. I really hope that someday I can help to the degree that I want to, and not just in minor ways like shutting down my grandma when she says something offensive.

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