Radical Feminist Take on BDSM?

I agree with some radfem teachings, but not all. I'm into casual BDSM and generally prefer the more dominant role. I like being in charge and telling my partner what (not) to do, being a bit aggressive with them (leaving scratches, bite marks, pinning them down, etc.), edging them, tying them up and blindfolding them, having them call me ma'am, having them wear a collar, etc.

I don't think any of this is abusive and I always call out unsafe BDSM practices whenever I encounter them.

I have nothing but respect for my partner and I would never intentionally hurt them unless they asked for it (I don't think light scratching, biting and spanking constitutes abuse when consensual).

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