I realized this "arranged marriage" system when I was 15, I can go on and on about this but to end this for myself is to not get married, it's not feasible for open minded people. If you are a closed minded/ simple insaan jisse shadi krke naukari krni h ya jo shadi jindagi ka ek aspect mannta h this system is amazing, there's no problem as shadi krna yha bahut assaan h, relatives and family somehow find someone and get you married, but for someone who wants to be on their own, knows the worth of know, love and marriage it's best to ignore this as, firstly it's hard to find someone who actually has same principle in life as you do, secondly, parents are hard to turn around (For both sides) and lastly if you somehow do get married and have a family your children would face the same problem and you'd have to do the same thing that your parents did for you as the society is still the same, no one wants to see their children suffer. If you can't beat the game, just don't play the game. Falling in love doesn't work here, I've never seen anyone fall in love and get married on their own, it usually ends as a story that spreads as a gospel which relatives make fun of and laugh about. Let me remind you that here we have "Matrimony Website" for parents, where parents 'date ' and choose a partner for you, I'd never let my parents choose a bed sheet for me let alone a "suitable partner". It's funny how you aren't allowed to talk to strangers but marrying one is completely fine because you talked to them on "WhatsApp" for three months, from "arrangement ceremony" to "marriage" it's a cringe fest, no one is actually there to celebrate the fact that two people are getting engaged or married, they are there for the food, liquor , drama, gifts, and judging the arrangements made by the "parents". There's nothing romantic about these weddings and I bet most of the people present at the wedding don't even know or care who's getting married, they take off before the "phere" lol.

I'm glad that my parents have no plans for getting me married, I told them I'd never marry anyone so it's best for them to use that money for their own or spend it on a vacation. I'll move out and live alone and away from my relatives and society as I'm sure they would have something to say, it's sad to that my father's name will end with me but at least I'll be happy. And yes, I'll get a pet too!