Rant Wednesday

one piece of advice if that's ok? maybe it'll help you next time. you say you "fell hard for her" but from your post I couldn't quite figure out how long you've actually known her or if you ever did get to know her besides exchanging gym pleasantries. Speaking as a girl, it can feel very off putting as soon as a someone starts putting me on a pedestal or signals that they are very romantic interested in me without actually knowing me. Maybe this was the case here. Maybe you got carried away. If you don't think any of this applies to you, I'm apologize. Again, it was a litte unclear what nature of relationship you had.

Mentally shifting your attitude about this experience can also help you recover. She isn't some perfect girl that you lost, just someone you started exploring and that exploring revealed you were not gonna be a fit. If she is not interested further, she simply was not a good fit for you.

/r/Fitness Thread Parent