Rape culture so prevalent they are out here openly admitting they only enjoy sex when their partner isn't aroused

It really is not that hard to understand: If she does not very obviously consent ( if in doubt, just use your vocal chords and ask in a tactful manner) or even better, comes onto you, stay the fuck away. If she very obviously consents and is still dry/nervous anyways, do your best to get her there. If that doesnt work, you are either doing it wrong (again, just use your vocal chords and ask what you can do differently) or she seriously is not in the mood. If thats the case, just cuddle and feel blessed that you have someone that wonderful to share your life with.

In the beginning my gf thought that she had to give me a reason as to why she is not aroused, because her ex just did it anyways if she didnt vigourously argued the point or got him off otherwise. It just made me sad when she complimented me on being so "considerate and kind" because of that, when something like this should be the bare fucking minimum of basic human decency.

Dipshits like the guy above should seriously stick to their vacuum cleaner, fleshlight, roll of sanding paper or any other inanimate object, instead of hurting wonderful women like my gf, that will then think for years to come that every guy that doesnt basically rape them is being considerate and kind.

(If his hand isnt dry enough, I'll gladly send over a barrel of nice anhydrous acetone to soak his hands in or alternatively hand-craft him a pipe fitted with sanding paper. I'll gladly put in that time for the good of humanity)

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