I feel ya. My husband of four years (been together 6) told me in April that he didn’t love me anymore. He was lovey dovey with me up until a week before he told me that. I don’t know if it’s someone else, loss of feelings over time, or mental health issues (the military has him stationed in another state). He doesn’t speak to me or open up to anyone else. So no one knows what’s going on. The wife in me wants to help him and be there for him. But all I know is my world feels like it’s falling apart and I’m spiraling down and he’s not here for me. We just gotta remind ourselves that we are loving, caring, supportive, dedicated people that deserve so much more. Maybe one day they can realize they messed up badly by letting us go.