Reading some of the posts here, makes me (F23) wonder whether I am an idealist or my standards are too high

you want and imply that anyone who does otherwise lacks self-respect

No, I simply say that is my system.

What I do imply that women who do not set boundaries from the beginning, just to act in the end as victims. Its nobody's fault they do not communicate their expectations from the beginng, they do not express what they expect from a man.

You say it's not your place to judge,

I am not judging women who have casual sex, I am trying to understand why they do not set their boundaries so they will not have to complain later. That's all.

Things do indeed change as things progress, but the change is easier when we are honest with ourselves and know what we want.

Can we blame men, when we do not know what we want and do not have boundaries defined?

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