3. The realizations don’t stop and it always hurts.

The realizations don’t stop and it always hurts.

Ramble on...

I'm almost 27 months out and I've finally been tackling the room where I've stored a lot of the detritus from my marriage (sailing and mountaineering equipment...clothes). Before I got in there, I was thinking that I'm doing 'pretty good' and that I've been on an even keel for a few months, but damn...I saw the old clothes that I used to see her in and it brought so many snap shot memories, it's been feeling like another 'mini-death'. I know it will pass (been in this rodeo over two years now), but the pain. Oh man, it hurts.

I feel ya sweetie. Being a widow/widower has been the worst thing that I've ever gone through. And then I feel bad saying that 'cause I'M THE ONE WHO'S STILL FUCKING ALIVE!!! Ugh.

We persevere.

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