Highschool sucks and life gets much bigger once you get out. All of those peers with their opinions, and all of that social pressure to be this or that, just doesn't matter any more once it's over.

Those people you are talking about won't matter in the slightest in a few years. I know it's hard while you're in it, I remember what it was like, but try to remember that it's a really small part of life that will have almost no bearing on where you go after. That's up to you.

Bodybuild if you want to. Be a dom and find a sub. No one in the real world cares because we're all too busy with our own lives to really give a shit about anyone else but those in our immediate circle.