What a bitter bunch of assholes - I'm sorry these are the people you have in your past. That really sucks. The problem with bitter people is you leave them alone too long they just get worse and worse, bitching among themselves, coming up with whatever they possibly can to further reinforce their baseless opinions. So ever since you took your husband out they've been cooking away at their horrible little bitchy ideas about you two. You're well rid of all these garbage people!

Also your mother is completely in the wrong and has no right to say that to you. She needs to accept that you are H A P P Y for god's sake, and chill the hell out. Most parents never get to see their kids in complete and total wedded bliss, she should be delighted for you.