Look, I don't have the best fate either. I am below average height in Chadgermany, I have a high pitched voice and the body of a teenager boy while being 25 years old. (I'm kinda exagerrating, but you get the point) I could create a never ending list of major flaws that I have which decrease my chances of attracting girls.
Trust me, I wanted to give up so bad so many times. The Blackpill is mental poison.
I feel the effects every single day. Be it in social dynamics or at work. I have to fight way harder than others to get my point across and to get respected. It's even worse since my career path lies in managing others.
I still ascended, though arguably later than others. But thinking back from where I started and where I am, I would've never imagined it.