taken care of during the relationship

she can get another man within the next week

...Men have more bull to deal with than women throughout everything else with dating. Ahem, domestic violence, higher infidelity, caretaking (men are 6 times more likely to leave their partner after she is diagnosed with a terminal illness)

These are just some of your unsubstantiated claims. You have a worldview on relationships that's totally skewed against women but yet you interpret everything through it. Not only do I disagree with you, there is also no science to back up your claims. Again, life and relationships are hard for everyone. Women have unique problems, and so do men. Please stop wallowing in self pity.