If there was a secret handshake discovered that made all hot 19 year old models want to bang you

Your argument is naive AF to the fact that humans are adaptive. Shit doesn't work forever. It probably did work for a while, but then women figured out what "negging" was and now have their shields up for it.

Negging is a powerful social dominance tool in a certain context: UMC sorority girls and "mean girls" of the 90s and 00s. Those privileged bitches negged EACH OTHER and made up bullshit HV stories to establish social dominance within their own female hierarchies. After years of conditioning via psychological manipulation from THEIR OWN FRIENDS, I could see how they'd be vulnerable to men using the same tricks to manipulate them into submission. I've never tried it, but it makes perfect sense to me, after watching girls I grew up with do it to each other all the time.