I recently came out in my 30s, and the “advice” i am getting from bi women in hetero marriages is annoying

Agreed! Not shocking because I always tend to agree with your comments when I see them, but this part really stuck out:

Especially when not coming out doesn't interfere with mating and family and friendly relationships when a bisexual woman chooses to pursue a heterosexual relationship.

EXACTLY! I was on the Christian subreddit a while back after following a link from the exchristian subreddit about LGBT Christians. So many of them there commented that they were bisexual but would never come out and would only date the opposite sex due to their religion. That didn't sound too bad to me? I'm sure it sucks more if they were more same-sex leaning, but at least they can still have fulfilling relationships with the opposite sex. And them not coming out doesn't affect anything (except maybe people making homophobic comments to their face because they think they're "safe" around a "straight person.")

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