recommendations for vibrator for my wife

Why insertion? You said she doesn’t like the feeling of stretching.

I’d start with a $40 wand massager from Amazon.

Warm it up under hot water first and make out with her. Kiss her entire body and slowly introduce the wand to her clit.

Don’t hold it in one spot too long and don’t put pressure on it. Lightly tease her. Then start testing with a finger while also using the wand. Use some lube as well. I’m a fan of coconut oil.

The vibration will very likely be quite pleasurable and it will distract from any normal discomfort from one finger vaginal penetration.

From there try to read her body. Watch her face and get hands. Listen to her breathing. And then escalate to two fingers slowly.

Her feeling relaxed and not pressure is PARAMOUNT so at anytime if it’s too much, dial it back.

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