Most people today desire to view men and women as the same. It’s the politically correct, fashionable view in our culture. It isn’t true, especially when it comes to love, sex and romantic matters.

Men’s love is more romantic than women’s. We literally romanticize them, that’s how we easily find so many different kinds of women incredibly beautiful, valuable and worthy of sacrifice.

Women’s love is typically more pragmatic and materialistic than men’s. That’s why attractiveness/beauty standards for males are a lot more uniform, and why women disparage men for not measuring up to immutable physical ideals a lot more frequently.

Are there exceptions? Absolutely. Interestingly, however, the sexes often tend to define the opposite through these exceptional cases lol. Women often strongly believe that most “men are dogs” that cheat and value them as trophy wives/gfs, even though this belief is the result of an apex fallacy dominated romantic perspective of males. Men often believe “women are wonderful”, because of exceptional cases and popular made up stories wherein the guy causes a woman to love him through his charming personality and big heart rather than his looks money or status.

Most of the time when a man says “I love you”, he means “I’d risk my life to keep you safe because you mean so much to me”. Most of the time when a woman says “I love you” she means “I love how being with you makes me look and feel. You make me feel safe, physically and socially”.